Reader Question:
i will be a 31-year-old unmarried pops. We came across this woman online two months before. We ultimately came across for coffee one early morning. It was fantastic! I inquired their to lunch and we also had an enjoyable experience. She and I have actually such in keeping on an individual level.
After consuming some drink, we text their each one of these strong circumstances, like I’m ideal man she’s previously met, just how fantastic she’s, etc. The following day we apologized. She responded “Yeah, you def scared me out. I’m not sure what you should also state.” We replied if she could forget it, i would ike to see this lady once again. She provided no answer.
Could there be any way i could save this?
-Joe (Ohio)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:
Dear Joe,
In short, no. But you did learn a very useful class: the first party of love requires the power to go after yet contain yourself.
Its similar to understanding how to drive a stick shift. Too-much clutch or continuously gasoline may cause that stall. Next time you will do better.
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